well its taken me over a week to build myself up to ask for this advise and even as i'm typing away i'm finding it hard
before we got blue we had a little yorkshire terrier - Gizmo, who unfortunatly died at nearly 15 years old from heart disease :cry: his death devastated us as he was very much a part of the family.
well it took over a year for us to make the desision to get another pet, and then we saw Blue
he was only 3 weeks old and i couldnt keep myself away from the poor breeders home over the next 5 weeks, when we brought him home i couldnt bear to leave him alone for a single moment just incase anything happened.
i,ve since dragged myself away and i mean dragged
myself to the shops but only for an hour and believe me its the longest hour i ever spend and then i forget what i went for :?
.it's not just me though, the whole family are the same, my hubby and me arrange everything around his shifts so that Blue is never alone. if there are places we can go to and we can bring Blue then thats were we go :!: he goes everywhere with us.
Now i know a part of this goes back to Gizmo as we all still miss him
, and i know the dangers of seperation anxiety for poor Blue
, but we love him so much and so want to do the best by him but just dont know how to get over this, at the moment he's our whole world.
Blue doesn't seem to have a problem when i do leave him the problem lies with us :oops:
I dont want to sound dramatic but i,d very much appreciate any advise you could give as this is taking over all our lives (Blues too!)