Ben (12) has drastically increased the frequency he wees now and like Honey he can't seem to hold it and when he needs to go it's immediate! It started quite quickly as well about a year ago he suddenly increased over a few days or so and never went away. We have had lots of puddles indoors, and I have posted about the problems we have at night in the oldies bit.
When it first started I took him to the vet incase it was a urine infection, but all came back clear and she said it was his age and some dogs struggle to control their bladder more than others.
Is Honey weeing normally or is it just a dribble (if that's not to personal a question
)?
My vet said to watch for Ben just dribbling, that's more likely to be an infection, but if it's a normal wee not to worry too much.
Hopefully your vet will be able to sort it all out, but if it's age related it is manageable, we just send Ben out every half hour or so whether he asks or not and generally it's ok.