I accept what you are saying completely, however, you don't know what experience the parents or the child has had of dogs in the past! Sometimes this what would seem irrational behaviour stems from a terrible incident that anyone of them, may have had. As a parent, we do everything possible to keep our children safe, sometimes yes, I agree people do go overboard, but like I say, we don't know their experiences and they don't know that our dogs are safe!
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Not to be misunderstood... I'm arguing these kind of parents... not you ;-)
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True, all of us, more or less, had bad experiences with many things... I have actually been bitten by dogs three times, one of these cases I had to go to a hospital for precaution reasons...and it wasn't even my fault in two of these cases.
Many of us had little car accidents... or know ppl who have had car accidents, even fatal. Most parents do smoke in front of their children and we all know that smoke does kill... so do other things too. Have you ever heard a parent to tell their boy/girl... 'don't drive, I had an accident when I was younger'... I don't think so. And if yes, it would be one or two cases. I don't know a single one.
I respect the wish of ppl, not to touch my dog... allergies, fear, hate... whatever. But I don't like the way that it's passed to the children. Children, use us as role-models and they tend to be 'alike' us. I heard the other time some kids aged from 7 to 10 to swear at my dog... when my wife asked them why they said such things... they replied because dogs are bad and always bite... yes ofcourse... according to their parents they *do*. When my wife explained to them that dogs are not bad for such and such reasons, their behaviour towards Balu changed immediately(to a better one), we hope towards other dogs too.
Children tend to follow up us, because everything we do or say... is right (?).
According to the national board of security committe of US, the death chances are
Car accident => 1/242
Drowning => 1/1028
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Dog bite => 1/137694 <=
I was walking down the street last year, with my wife, Nikolas, and Balu. A man with his child on a stroller passed next to us and said something *really bad*, in front of all of us but not exactly *to* us. His child heard that. When I asked him what was the problem, he just went away... I was really annoyed, firstly because our *children* were in front of us...
Now, IMHO, what this man taught to his child:
a) All dogs are monsters and deserve to be punished.
Use bad language when applicable to all animals, especially when the owners are in front...
c) Don't stand up for your opinion. Be a coward and run away. Don't even be bothered to give a diplomatic/politically correct answer
When someone has a bad experience, he/she must pay attention and if possible to avoid it next time it occurs... learn by his/her mistake/unfortune. But passing this fear to a child, is a '
crime'. He/she must talk to his/her child how to avoid it by analysing the +and-, and be next to it, as a guarding angel. Children psychology/personality is very delicate/sensitive and is formed until the age of 6, if I remember well.
I also agree that parents do not know if our dogs are safe and eventually they wish *not* to touch it. Good... it'll be wise then for them not to allow their children to touch our dogs... but in a nice manner. ie, 'the dog is tired now, we'll come tomorrow and play with it', or find_a_good_non_fear/terror_excuse, would be ideal ;-)
I'm not a perfect parent, none is... but I try to learn from my mistakes, and listen to people who know a few things more than I do. These kind of parents tend to listen to noone for many things.
Erm... sorry this was a long post, and again, it was not intended to argue Mrsbojangles :-) please please don't get me misunderstood...
ok, i missed Balu.. i'll go and give her a hugeeee hug, for being good to all of the children even if she is tortured and sweared!
i'll b back in a sec.