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Offline Koslg

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Quality of life
« on: January 09, 2019, 09:57:03 PM »
How do you decide about the quality of life? Humbug has been found to have cancer in his anal glands and spine. At the moment I hate the world.

Id say that today he showed the most of being himself. Hes on amigo optics after an emergency op last week. and painkillers.

Hes just sleeping a lot. Today we walked for 5 minutes in his favourite place.

I know I can be brave when the time comes  :luv: its just come too soon. Hes just 8.5 years old. X

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Re: Quality of life
« Reply #1 on: January 09, 2019, 11:26:50 PM »
I am so sorry to hear that, I was desperately hoping for better news for you and Humbug.  :bigarmhug: I think if he is happy to potter about, is eating and still has a wee spark in his eye, then you are good. You will know when the time has come, you and Humbug will figure it out.  Xx

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Re: Quality of life
« Reply #2 on: January 09, 2019, 11:31:32 PM »
It's really sad for all of you and you must feel cheated that this has happened so young.  We are in a similar situation ourselves with 7 years old Rowan, although she is not a confirmed diagosis yet but we've been warned what might be coming. I think you'll know when the time is right, unfortunately been there before...if you have doubts that says it's probably not time..when you see no joy for him, then you'll know.  Very hard times for you but I hope you get to enjoy more special time together.
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Re: Quality of life
« Reply #3 on: January 10, 2019, 06:40:22 AM »
I'm so sorry to hear this news, as everyone has said while Humbug is still happy, eating and wagging his tail it's not time yet. You will know when it is time.
Cockers are the top breed to suffer with Anal Sac Carcinoma.  My last boy Blue also developed it at the age of just 8 years old. He lived for 19 months after surgery so don't give up yet.
Try and stay positive and cherish every second you have with him.

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Re: Quality of life
« Reply #4 on: January 10, 2019, 06:40:36 AM »
So very sorry to read this, I really feel for you. I agree with the others, you will know when the time is right, while I know that dogs often do hide their pain well  I also believe that, with medication and painkillers, their quality if life is much better than ours would be in a similar situation, simply because they live for the hour and dont fret about how theyre likely to feel tomorrow. I would therefore try and just take each day as it comes and as long as hes still showing an interest in life, eating and drinking, do your best to carry on as normal. Its the hardest decision we ever have to make for our beloved companions but Humbug will tell you when its time and you will know. I wish you strength and lots of happy days together still. Sending  :bigarmhug: to you both.

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Re: Quality of life
« Reply #5 on: January 10, 2019, 11:27:07 AM »
So very sorry  :bigarmhug: :bigarmhug: it just seems so unfair doesn't it at such a young age. I hope you get some more time to create special memories with your boy  :luv:  like others have said you know when it is time its so difficult but I got some comfort from when we said goodbye to Ben that we were able to arrange the time and place to minimise the anxiety for him, and didn't have to go into the vets which he hated.  I was worried if we waited too long and he became poorly very quickly I would lose that choice.

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Re: Quality of life
« Reply #6 on: January 10, 2019, 02:13:31 PM »
I'm so sorry about the diagnosis, I hope that COL can help you both through this horrible time.

As others have said, you will just know, you will no longer be asking yourself if it's time as some how you will know.

One thing I will say from past experience,  Humbug dosn't know or understand the diagnosis, he is just feeling unwell so it's our job to fuss and spoil them in this time and keep things as normal for them as possible.
No one told my cat that he had 6 months and he lasted a lot longer then anyone expected, we just never know how much time we have with them  :bigarmhug: :bigarmhug: :bigarmhug:

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Re: Quality of life
« Reply #7 on: January 10, 2019, 05:43:05 PM »
My heart aches for you...it is such a horrible thing to deal with and Humbug needs you to be strong, these cockers of ours are such knowing individuals, Humbugs needs your love today and tomorrow and each day is suddenly more precious.

As for quality of life make these days have quality and memories and sadly when this fades you will know when the time is right, till then Humbug will just enjoy the love and fuss and you must cherish each moment.

Be strong and your friends at COL are here for you.

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Re: Quality of life
« Reply #8 on: January 12, 2019, 05:59:59 PM »
Sending massive  :bigarmhug: to you and Humbug.  You are in a very difficult sitution.  You can only go on your instinct as to how Humbug is on a day to day basis.  Is he the Humbug you know and love so much or have things changed.

I lost my beloved boy on Thursday and my heart is breaking at the moment, but Jazz was almost 14 so I know he had lived his life to a good age.   :luv:  :luv:

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Re: Quality of life
« Reply #9 on: January 12, 2019, 07:07:33 PM »
So sorry to read your news about Humbug, it is difficult at anytime, but when they are young it seems to hit us harder.

Sending you big  :bigarmhug: :bigarmhug:

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Re: Quality of life
« Reply #10 on: January 12, 2019, 07:38:40 PM »
Our rescue dog Finn died of the same thing. He had an op to remove the anal tumour, it was huge, but sadly he had secondaries in his spine too.  Progress was swift, and we had to make the sad journey to the vet. He was only 8 too. You will know when the time comes to say goodbye, we all here will be thinking of you  :bigarmhug: :bigarmhug:

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Re: Quality of life
« Reply #11 on: January 13, 2019, 02:14:31 PM »
So sorry to hear x Jinley had her anal glands removed when she was 5 after having many problems.  I must admit I am glad now as it is one less thing to worry about!  Anyway sending  you both some  :bigarmhug: :bigarmhug: and if you are on facebook look up the Turmeric Users Group UK.  They have some wonderful information on treating cancers with golden paste.  Anything is worth trying xx