I never got around to having Sonny castrated because it never seemed necessary - he gets on fine with almost all dogs he meets, he doesn't hump any one or anything and he doesn't seem terribly affected by female dogs, he's shown more interest in them when they're in season, but never had a chance to get very close.
He's still quite excitable in the house, he goes crazy for visitors, chases the cats and is convinced that any food I'm getting out of the cupboard/fridge must be for him. I think these problems are just down to my (lack of) training in these areas, they're minor annoyances but nothing I can't live with.
The problem is that he's snappy - he snapped at my DD a couple of weeks ago when she sat by his bed to stroke him and he has tonight snapped at my DS when he knelt down to give him a hug. I know these are things that children aren't supposed to do around dogs but they're young (6 & 5) and even when I'm there I can't control everything that happens. They are generally very good with him, they don't clamber on him or pull at him and they very rarely hug him or go near his bed or food. He has snapped at my DS in the past when he was guarding food (the kitchen bin), we worked on this and he seemed much better so I guess I'd stopped worrying so much about his behaviour.
My parents have suggested that he may calm down a bit if I have him castrated, I wondered if anyone had any opinions on this?
I will also be contacting a behaviourist tomorrow to see what they recommend. I love Sonny (as do the kids) but I don't think I can maintain the level of constant vigilance that I need to at the moment. I wanted a family dog and I've done my best to train him to be one but he seems to have no tolerance for the kids, at the moment I'm really worried that I'm going to have to try and re-home him
